Dreamt i was having an affair and i went to my lovers house and his wife found us in sitting room talking and i pretended to be a garden consultant and she started showing me her plants and she even drove me to the city to a mall where i sad i was going. I returned to the house later when my lover was alone and told him he has a lovely family
This dream could indicate feelings of guilt or conflict around a current situation in your waking life. It is possible that you are engaging in behavior that you could perceive as cheating or going against your moral values. The wife's reaction could represent your fear of getting caught and facing the consequences of your actions. However, the fact that you disguised yourself as a garden consultant and bonded with the wife over plants could symbolize your desire to make amends and find common ground in the situation.
Alternatively, the dream could reflect your longing for something new and adventurous in your life, as the affair represents a desire to escape routine and monotony. Yet, when faced with the reality of the situation, you realize the gravity of your actions and that they could potentially hurt the people you care about. Encountering the wife may also be a way for your subconscious to remind you of the importance of family and commitment.
Overall, this dream suggests that there might be a conflict between your desires and your moral compass. It could be helpful to reflect on what is important to you and whether your actions align with your values and beliefs.